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> My girlfriend and I both wanna try anal sex. Neither of us have any STD's. Will we make aids.? She isn't sure I keep telling her we won't.
And you know that you won't, how??
I'm surprised that you haven't used your favorite internet search engine to learn more. The same can be said for this venue. There are two search engines and the Index, mentioned, above, that provide much help. Please do a site search for more on anal sex or anal intercourse.
How long have the two of you been dating? Have the two of you been sexually active and if so how long have you been having intercourse?
It is generally considered to be a poor choice to engage in anal intercourse without a lot of history and trust between partners who have already established a satisfactory relationship with vaginal intercourse. I understand the excitement and the curiosity, yet physically and emotionally, this is not a good thing to do near the beginning of a relationship and for a couple with little prior overall experience.
If you want to experiment, then use a well lubricated dildo or toy, or fingers for the foreseeable future because the two of you need much more knowledge than you now possess. Read what Brandye, EvilEvilKitten, and I have had to say on the matter. You will be glad you did the research. Anal sex can be safe, although, you have to know what and how to proceed and what the consequences of your actions are.
Nowhere did I read that you plan to use a condom. This is a must!
I recommend that you slow down, calm the curiosity and spend a good deal of time learning all you can about this subject, as well as learning how to be a great lover regardless of how you eventually go about climaxing.
Any STD, including HIV/AIDS, requires the introduction of a pathogen. If neither of you have AIDS, you will not create it from nothing. AIDS is commonly transmitted through anal sex because the very act of anal sex causes small tears in the tissue surrounding the anus allowing the HIV access direct access to the bloodstream of the recipient. No AIDS in either partner; no HIV to pass.
There are many reasons to avoid anal sex including transmission of disease or, simply, that she does not want to. You would be safe in your specific situation, as described.
Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you will enjoy participating. Please begin by familiarizing yourself with the FAQs, the Posting Guidelines section, and especially the Index, all found at the top of the main screen. The Index contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles that discuss the most common questions and concerns people ask about--like yours. In addition, if you click on the site's Home page you will find much more information.
> My girlfriend and I both wanna try anal sex. Neither of us have any STD's. Will we make aids.? She isn't sure I keep telling her we won't.
And you know that you won't, how??
I'm surprised that you haven't used your favorite internet search engine to learn more. The same can be said for this venue. There are two search engines and the Index, mentioned, above, that provide much help. Please do a site search for more on anal sex or anal intercourse.
How long have the two of you been dating? Have the two of you been sexually active and if so how long have you been having intercourse?
It is generally considered to be a poor choice to engage in anal intercourse without a lot of history and trust between partners who have already established a satisfactory relationship with vaginal intercourse. I understand the excitement and the curiosity, yet physically and emotionally, this is not a good thing to do near the beginning of a relationship and for a couple with little prior overall experience.
If you want to experiment, then use a well lubricated dildo or toy, or fingers for the foreseeable future because the two of you need much more knowledge than you now possess. Read what Brandye, EvilEvilKitten, and I have had to say on the matter. You will be glad you did the research. Anal sex can be safe, although, you have to know what and how to proceed and what the consequences of your actions are.
Nowhere did I read that you plan to use a condom. This is a must!
Please begin reading with these articles:
"Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage
This is also an excellent tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of Anal stimulation as well as play.
Dildos and the Human Anus
I recommend that you slow down, calm the curiosity and spend a good deal of time learning all you can about this subject, as well as learning how to be a great lover regardless of how you eventually go about climaxing.
I hope this is of help. Got questions?
-doc
Any STD, including HIV/AIDS, requires the introduction of a pathogen. If neither of you have AIDS, you will not create it from nothing. AIDS is commonly transmitted through anal sex because the very act of anal sex causes small tears in the tissue surrounding the anus allowing the HIV access direct access to the bloodstream of the recipient. No AIDS in either partner; no HIV to pass.
There are many reasons to avoid anal sex including transmission of disease or, simply, that she does not want to. You would be safe in your specific situation, as described.