Hey ya all,
just wanting an opinion, I love to use a buttplug when i masturbate. My partner does not know this and really is not all that adventurous so im not all that sure she would appreciate that knowledge. It makes no difference to our sexlife and we are a very loving close couple. its just something i enjoy while pleasing myself. Do you thing its being deceitful in any way by not telling her about this?
Cheers
Mon, 06/18/2007 - 10:54
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> Do you thing its being deceitful in any way by not telling her about this?
No.
Now having said that, my reasoning is that what we do in private (solo or not) remains private. The question to ask yourself on this or any other matter for which the question comes up is of what benefit will it be for the person to know.
This question comes in very handy for those people who say they share every thing and do not like having any secrets.
If and when the time arrives when it might benefit her to know this, then do share the information whether it is this matter or something else in question.