me and my girl have been having sex for a while (she was a virgin) and she enjoys it. but i cant go in all the way almost but not quite like half an inch to go she sez it begins to hurt when i get to the point.ima let her explain how it feels...
"it feels like a pain in my lower back but the first time we had sex it hurt more but it felt like it was just opening the way, pushing things aside. now when he penetrates it feels good but when he has about half an inch to go all the way in it just gives me a pain in my lower back"
does anyone know what can thise be is it that she cant fit me any further? someone suggested that i just umm sort off plow in when she doesent expect it, she said to try it but im not sure yet? can any body help?
Since i haven't had sex yet all i can say is to keep experimenting with it.... try doggy and see if it hurts her.... she is a virgin and she will hurt.... but can any of you tell me if that is natural for a non virgin since i am still one. All ican say really is that it is probably natural since people say that when you first have sex it hurts... do research on it both of you go to google.com and like type in having sex for the first time pains.
You are probably hitting her cervix. Going through the cervix is not an option, so there may be nothing you can do about it. As nodoubt said, it may help to experiment with different positions and angles, since some allow for deeper penitration than others. However, I wouldn't recomend doggystyle specifically, since in my experience that is one of the positions where it is easiest to accidently hurt her. Look at this site's section on positions for more ideas.
Make sure you have a condom on properly and she is well filled with vaginal jelly. Then let her be on top and in control. Things will work.
i dont think you are quite understanding us we've been having sex for a while now we,ve done alot of possitions and have tryed difrent things. but today we went three times in a row and we tryed that thing that i said b4 and she said she felt just a lil slight pain but there was improvement i was able to go in all the way, we were able to go harder and faster,but when we tryed to put her body in like an L shape i can onley go so far without it hurting like an inch left to go so when i thrust i have to like stop in that point.
Ask a doctor
Something might be too large, or out of place, or oddly shaped inside her.. if so, then a doctor might be able to help
Or, if she''s simply too small (which it doesnt sound like), the doctor might be able to help with ideas or treatment to loosen and/or relax her muscles..