dont worry, thats well above laughable
you'll be fine

... there are thousands of posts like this one.. please read before your post... honestly...

I agree with Trivium, it is annoying to see the same questions and concerns posted day after day when someone could do some searching of the forum archive and possibly find answers quicker and more complete than writing and waiting for the results of a new post. Often by just reading other posts from the present day or two will net needed information.

> my problem is that i am still a virgin and i have had lots of gurls but i always back out when it comes to sex.

Why is being a virgin a problem? You should know that most of what you read and hear comes from the vocal minority. Reports are that around 75% of couples in western societies wait until Part 2 of the wedding ceremony to have intercourse. Be it for religious or moral or ethical reasons, there is a very real benefit for waiting that only happens once in a lifetime and never the same way with second marriages. What?

Part 2 of the marriage ceremony is the consummation of the vows. It is then that something very special takes place--a connection of the psyches that does not happen with casual sex--or after! The vagina is considered the gateway to a woman's soul; the penis is the essence of a man. When the two join for the first time ever within this framework, a true melding of the psyches takes place. It is an experience worth having the faith to wait and experience lest it be gone forever.

> Well im not sure if my gurlfriend will say something or what.

Please tell me why you think it would be in a woman's best interest to comment unfavorably? **

> When i get an erection it is about 5.2 or sometimes 5.5 long....

There are several statistical charts around that depict what is "normal", take your pick. On par, the range is 4.25"--6". The size of any one person's endowment is based primarily upon ethnicity and genitics. Much of the world's male population probably fits within the lower ~1/3.

The matter of size is strictly a guy thing, probably some remnant of basic instinct left over from the beginnings of mankind. Since we do not have horns to lock with a potential competitor, perhaps broad shoulders, well defined muscles, and a sizeable endowment are how choices in mates from the past were rated.

** What is a gal thing nowadays, particularly after the sexual revolution of the 1960s is POWER. Women consider the penis akin to a lever that works as both a throttle and a brake over their man's arousal, tension, anticipation, and, excitement. All that is important is that the penis be long enough to grasp.

That said, the other important thing for a guy to know and understand about what women consider important is that the penis be fully functional, that the owner-operator knows how to use it, and that he be a knowledgeable, skilled, and compassionate lover. These are the areas that you should be concerned about--and that you can actually do something about!

Trivium and Dancingdoc2, you have a total of 72 post(at the time of this post) between you. What gives you the right to police this forum. This young man has come asking a question that is important to him. It probably took a while to get his courage up, and you 2 beat him down with your coldness. UnKnownKK, you are very normal. Dont let these 2 keep you from seeking advice here.

actually I've found dancinDoc's posts outstanding ...and quite thorough!!..sometimes the "medicine" doesn't taste that good,so ya gotta pinch yer nose and just take it...