I am looking for advice on how to best satisfy a woman. I am bi-curious and am planning on being with a woman.
But what I hear leaves me confused on exactly what I should do.
I hear that I should do what feels good to me and do that. Ok I can do that, I think. Although I do worry that since I haven't done this and have only had the same man for 15 years touch my body how will I know that I am not just doing exactly what he does to me.
Now most the time he does just great but I have learned to adapt to him and how to make him know what I like. Thats not the same as me doing a woman.
Also reading this forum and other places I am fully aware that every woman is different. What feels good to one may not feel good to another.
My fear is that I am going to just go rubbing and poking around and not be able to read her body language. Or have the great sexual experience I am hoping for.
So I need advice and help. Pointers on what I should do if I end up in an intimate moment with this woman. Who is much like me and not very experienced and is also shy and nervous.
I really want to hear from you ladies out here that have done it and if you can share you first time expierence with me that would be great.
You can always PM me if you don't feel comfortable sharing everything on the board
Thanks, Tess
Tessie
I also had a "highschool experience" with a girl and I have to admit it was one of the best hook up's I have ever had! I know that a lot of girls like different things but I think when women are together sexual they pay more attention to pleasing one another and just not ourselves as men often do..
I would have to agree with leggyho basically a lot teasing and getting the girl worked up goes a long way....
I know that you started this subject awhile ago..but Good Luck and I hope your night turns out great...
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Some research studies have concluded that nearly thirty percent of all married women have a same sex lover at some point. What could be safer?
As an active bi-sexual woman, my advice is to do what comes naturally. Women seem to have an innate ability to read the reactions to whatever they do. We all started somewhere - in my case as a teen disappointed in boys, a girlfriend and I started demonstrating (first discussing) what we wished our boyfriends would do. Then we were doing it for each other!
[QUOTE=Quote (girl12 @ June 06 2004,14:51)]wait.......the woman ur attracted to has a husband?[/QUOTE]
Not only that but so do I. I should have made it more clear that this is a swinger thing. However the husbands aren't as important as us girls getting together and hitting it off.
I have no problem on how to do a man if that should happen.
wait.......the woman ur attracted to has a husband?
Well I just got home from meeting her. We went to a bar where her and her husband are friends with this band. It was lots of fun and we sat next to each other and had to talk right in each others ears to say anything.
She even managed to get me up to dance once. Which for someone that hasn't done that in more years then I can remember was weird. But then as we were going back to our chairs she leaned over and whispered that I was a good dancer and she would get me out there again.
It was just a really nice evening out where we met some of their friends and got to know each other. We hung out by the cars for awhile and just talked about different places we could go together.
Soooooo I think we had a mutual atraction and who knows. I might just be doing something with her very soon.
My best advice would be to make sure and spend alot of time on foreplay. Move slowly from light kisses to deep soulful kisses. Kiss and lick her neck. Softly rub her breasts. Kiss your way up and down her legs. Kiss and touch around her pussy before removing her undies. Be responsive to her touch. Verbalize when something feels good. If you let the moment build, soon you will be soooo hot for each other you will want to tear your clothes off and make love.
Again, when the moment of truth comes, start out gently and go from there. Vary what you do. Don't simply lick up and down. Continue to pay attention to the other areas of her body. Lean up and kiss her frequently. Let her know how great she feels.
My first time with another woman was stereotypically a "college experience." I met her at a party and we hit it off right away. Although I found women attractive, I had never really considered making love with one. Youthful exuburance and a little too much wine took over and we spent the night toghether. I've considered myself bi since that night.
Good luck Tessie. Let us know how it goes.