Greetings everyone,
I just joined the forum today and was reading some of the threads in hopes of finding some advice, but didnt see anything quite exactly like I am looking for.
My GF and I enjoy anal very much, both taking turns as tops. We have a strapon with a modestly sized dildo and both enjoy it immensely, but are limited by the shorter length of the toy (makes some positions tougher and it slides out too easily). We both want a longer toy to play with, so I went and picked one up to surprise her on my next visit (long distance relationship). I tried it on myself and noticed a problem-after i get it in a good bit, I seem to hit a wall so to speak and can't seem to take any more.
Now, of course, we are safe when we play and I trust her completely, so I am not concerned with comfort or safety (if it doesn't feel good, we dont do it). I just want to be able to comfortably take it from her, and would love for her to be able to really have at me after we get going.
I am not sure why i can't seem to fit more inside yet, but I reason it may be due to not having quite enough lube (though I used much more than I felt I needed), or my anxiousness (though I was alone and experimenting, so I was already at ease), or maybe my position.
Now, if it happens, it happens. I know my GF loves to play no matter what size we use, but I wanted to do this if I could. Does anyone have any advice or tricks to enable a person to comfortably and safely take deep anal penetration? I mean, maybe I will open up slowly to her thrusting, as in after she gets as deep as is comfortable, she can use that as a baseline and add more depth slowly while pumping into me? I am not sure of that, but I will be trying it regardless, lol. Anyone have any ideas?
The rectum is the only path from the colon to the outside. It is 10-15 cm long (4-6 inches) and has a turn at the top end (into the colon). Stuff passes from the colon into the rectum - this is what gives you the urge for a bowel movement. Sometimes this can be fairly hard will seem like an obstacle. It is.
Your post is very non-explicit: "a good bit" is not often shown on a meter stick.
If someone "really has at" someone else anally, are there even nerves to feel damage to the rectal lining such as overstretching? Due to the very thin wall, I thought that vigorous activity would go something like ok...ok....ok.....ok......ok.....SEVERE RECTAL DAMAGE, with no real warning like running a needle over a balloon until it suddenly pops.
Right on, fun, the rectum is one cell thick and has little flexibility as compared the vagina's forty cells of thickness with the ability to accommodate much larger objects - both entering and leaving.
i think you are getting bisexual habits.İt starts with touching your anus, fingerin (massaging), then deep fingering and strapon finally you will want real cock.i think its realy dangerous path man, think twice.
[QUOTE=darkfeelings;249530]i think you are getting bisexual habits.İt starts with touching your anus, fingerin (massaging), then deep fingering and strapon finally you will want real cock.i think its realy dangerous path man, think twice.[/QUOTE]
That is the perfect example of a homophobic person that doesn't understand sexuality. If you are Bisexual, you were born that way.
My wife and I enjoy anal play. If you understood the prostate you would realize that men...straight, gay and anywhere in between...can heighten their sexual experience by stimulating it. My wife has penetrated me and I didn't wake up the next day attracted to men. I'm not Bisexual. I know that and my wife knows that. I am very comfortable with my sexuality and have never questioned it.
The other point I would like to make is wanting to experiment with another man is not a "dangerous path". It's attitudes like that that make people go a lifetime without exploring their true sexuality. If getting fingered by a women leads you to wanting to have sex with a man I got news for you, that's what you wanted to begin with.
I can't remember who originally posted it or the exact wording, but the quote is fantastic:
"There is nothing you, a man could do with a woman that would be gay."