my boyfriend and i are having sex just fine. it's just that he doesn't get me off during vaginal sex. he can get my off by eating me out but i don't know if there is something wrong with me or if he's small or what. any positions or anything will help .
Thu, 08/04/2005 - 18:47
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advice on sex
I have to agree and jump in Bradye's boat. I am a person who needs the clitoral stimulation to oragasm. When I was younger it was a few times when I could with out.
Then again I am just glad to get off when I do now, no matter how it happens...I take what I can get...or I make it myself! LOL!
25% of women never have an orgasm; 50% do not have orgasms through penile thrusting (what you call vaginal sex. I happen to be in this 50% group; I have had orgasms that way very few times in the decades I have been sexually active. I never noticed a relationship between his size and my satisfaction. In fact, my g/f does the best by me and she has nothing to put in there! For many of us, a little additional stimulation is required.
I have no problem with sex as it is but the creator could have placed certain things in slightly different positions to help us women out!
And change your thinking from "him getting you off." Your orgasm is your orgasm; he does not give it to you.