My gf for a yr is abroad AND we are in contact through phone. she will return back in couple of years,but for rite now what i should i do to keep her still closer to me .We never had a sex but we had all other things related to it.Any reply to my question?
Wed, 04/14/2010 - 03:28
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advice for rescuing long distance relation
hi ravi,
you should talk to her more and more whenever convenient and by the any mode like net, phone etc. and have you never seen the ad of airtel that " baat karne se hi baat banti hai".
[QUOTE=ravi kumar;253884]My gf for a yr is abroad AND we are in contact through phone. she will return back in couple of years,but for rite now what i should i do to keep her still closer to me .We never had a sex but we had all other things related to it.Any reply to my question?[/QUOTE]
If it needs to be "rescued" then it's probably not going to work out. Both partners have to be absolutely certain that is what they want, because it's something that needs to be worked on continuously.
And this is coming from a guy who did over a years time of a long distance relationship...5 years later here we are married!
Communicate constantly through multiple mediums. Call, write letters, email, text, tweet, blog - all of it, all of the time. No matter how ordinary and every day - tell her about it. Asl her about how the countryside looks, what she did, what she plans on doing, how this or that is going - chatter, chit-chat, discuss, laugh, share jokes, be 'mushy' - all of it!!
By being the person she can't wait to tell, by being as if right there by her side - you will win her and bind her to you.