Yesterday when my gf and i were getting intimate after foreplay and fingering her she was begging me to go inside her which obviously i was happy to do yet i a problem where i wasnt fully erect. I tried getting myself erect which worked until i was just entering her for a few strokes. She is very dry which may add to things not helping but i was wondering if any one could advise anything as it really is something i want sorted. I m thinking it could may be due to the way my mind is functioned to be sexually turned on ie pornography that i have watched in the pass that fingering and her giving me a handjob just aint turning me on. Its not as if i dont get an erection at all during foreplay its just that after i have satisfied her to the point of actual intercourse where she is ready i dont seem to be. Is there a need for some assistance to help me perhaps ie viagra...
Any advice or enlightenment on this matter would be much appreciated. I hope it makes sense
If you are capable of erection without chemical assistance, the viagra will not help. The moving around associated with entry is sometimes enough disturbance of the body to cause a partial loss of erection. Difficulty of entry then makes this worse. If she is dry, use a good lubricant. I recommend using spermicidal lubricants (vaginal jelly) because then you get the added protection. If using the standards K-Y or Surgilube have her put them inside with an applicator so there is plenty.
The easier entry will use whatever erection you have and you will redevelop full erection.
There are several things that could be causing this, medical issues aside. One is how often do your masturbate? Too much can make you "uninterested". How much foreplay and of what kind do you need to get erect? Find out and then supply it. Use lubricant to help you if she's dry at all.I'd use it anyway as it makes caressing her G-Spot with your penis that much more fun esp if using a condom. Speaking of condoms - are you using the correct size? Too small means little or no erection. Are you anxious at all? A relaxed penis is an erect penis. If you're not relaxed then there's no chance your penis will be.
Brandye's quite right - Viargra will not help if not a medical issue.
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Cock ring. Start with one that has a velcro strap or easy snap.