hey me n my partner brought a strap on the other day. as we both wanted to explore more. we got down to buissnes and i waz in alot of discomfort. i waz experianceing burnning feeling. i didnt use lube (as i useually dont need to) what could be causeing this?? it is 100% sillicon and im not alergic to it as i have other toys that are jelly and plastic. i have washed it but am reluctant to use it. can sum one give me advice on what to do. thanks :)
Sun, 01/03/2010 - 16:36
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advice plzz :confused:
The fact you said you didn't use lube is a huge red flag. Try a bit of KY or any other water based lubricant and see how that works.
In addition to what Buck stated, is this--proceed slowly. Use pressure to insert a dildo or toy and do not just shove it. The idea is to tease the opening and get it used to having something slip inside, particularly if it is large than a normal penis.
...and use the lube on the dildo. It should be slippery, also.
i have used a strap on b4. i never ever needed lube on my other one from ann summers. its a diff make and brand this is y i waz asking if it could be a alergic reaction, but i have found out it is. as my partner has no reaction to it. thanks. xbernix