Ok well I have a problem... Me and my girlfriend have sex like wild animals like 5 times a nite 3 times in morning lol every day, But thats not the problem..
Ok well when we are both excited we kiss blah blah blah you know turn eachother on " make love " but she does not like my fingers her in ever :\ I can stick my fingers in her and here G spot is right there a hard ball like a nut shell, but when I stick my fingers inside of her I usually go gentle and rub her softly but she takes my hand out like she is very sensitive. Also during sexual intercourse after having sex for 5 minutes or so I can give her oral sex and like the the outter parts of her " and no im not going directly for the clit " Ok after 5 minutes of that I lick her clit she likes it alot, but I have to go extremly soft she doesn't even let me rub her clit and if I do I have to be super soft on it.
Problem #2
After having sex for 5 - 10 minutes or so she will say " baby I have to pee I have to pee " I tell her your just ready to have an orgasm but she usually push's me off her when she is ready to pee. Also if I keep going and she says I have to pee I have to pee I keep going and it looks like she is ready to cumm but she doesn't? So when she say's she is ready to pee how long after that will it most likly take her to cum? What do I do after she says she is ready to pee some motion? Faster?
Thank you who ever helps me!!
Sometimes it's not an orgasm... sometimes it is pee!
The other day my b/f and I were doing it..and I thought I could hold it till the end ( I have a small bladder it seems, I tend to go a lot)
Anyhow, he was thrust right at it...and I was like having to use all my muscles down there just to not pee, and I couldn't focus on anything else... then he laid down on me and that was it...lol... squished my bladder.. I was like I gotta go!!!!!
and I ran and had to pee a lot!
Of course it was a mood killer but oh well.... I tried to hold it as long as I could.. but him putting pressue down there from the inside and outside.
Yes I pee before hand, but if it's 30+ min of foreplay etc...then sex...and I have recently eaten or drank a lot...then yea it's time for me to go again.
I mean yeah it's easy just to say.. oh relax... it's not pee...but when you are either stabbing the bladder w/ your penis...or trying to find the gspot... it's very distracting and painful when all you can think about is how bad it feels like you have to pee.
I don't know about the other... some girls just don't like to be fingered. And some get overly sensitive after orgasms.... 8 times a day would have me not wanting anything touching me down there... we do get rubbed raw you know?!?
With regards to your first problem, there may be a number of issues with your girlfriend. Firstly, she may have confidence issues! She may feel completely uncomfortable having you down there because she might be overly-conscious of her smell / taste etc. This is her problem but it's something you can help her get over. Talk to her about it and just tell her how sexy you find her etc. You could even take a bath or shower together first and she might be more comfortable with it.
It could also be that since you're having sex that frequently, she's just too sore! And if that's the case i don't blame her. I for one know that if i have sex three times a night, i'm normally a bit too sore for it in the morning!
Finally, it could be that she just has a very sensitive vagina - maybe the pressure you're applying is too rough? Or maybe she'd prefer it in a different way.
Relax and experiment!
As for your second problem, it could also be a number of things. Either
1) You're stimulating her g-spot, and when you're about to have an orgasm from that it can feel like you really need to pee (because of the particular area you're stimulating). It's a sensation she has to understand and get used to to feel comfortable with, so explain it to her BEFORE you have sex and tell her to just try and relax.
OR
2) She may have cystitis - a common infection in women which causes them to need the toilet a lot more frequently, especially during/after sex.
OR
3) The girl just needs the toilet, and you're going to have to deal with it unfortunately!
Hope this helps.
something else quite worrying - her g-spot is not hard like a nutshell! That's more likely to be her cervix which is very sensitive and can be painful if touched!
going to the bathroom before hand might help too at least she might be abvle to understand she is not going to pee and relax
Sometimes ya just gotta go! Just make sure she goes before you start.
[QUOTE]I can stick my fingers in her and here G spot is right there a hard ball like a nut shell[/QUOTE]
I don't think her G-Spot is suppose to be this hard...that might not be it. From my past experiences, it's ''mushy'' (think wet sponge)
Okay it is NOT urine! You ladies are trying to ejaculate! Stimulating the G-Spot will tend to induce female ejaculation most of the time. Relax into it, breathe deeply, and LET GO! Put a towel beneath your rump if you wish. The part of the upper surface of the vagina you want to be caressing feels like a washboard - has small ridges in it.
When you first go in, the top surface will first feel like a squashed grape with small bumps on it - the more bumps - the more aroused she is. Then you come to bars both along and across, then you come to the washboard area. Gently stroke and press this (palm upwards with fingertisp curled up) area. If you are clever, you can also caress this area with the head of your penis to much the same effect.
The same "relax into it & deep breathing" technique will also help her through the sensitive period and get her into multi-orgasmic mode where almost anything you do will bring on another orgasm and another, and another...
I cannot comment on the second factor but I have the following on the first issue.
My wife gets extremely sensitive after experiencing a prolonged period of arousal or after climaxing. Any direct contact with the clitoris at this point seems to be uncomfortable and is generally avoided. As stated above, on very few occasions, getting "past" this point has seemed to have turned into a multiple orgasm situation and been thoroughly enjoyed by both parties.
After an orgasm you can keep her aroused and yet relaxed by understanding that ALL of her body becomes an erogenous zone - so move onto body worship - for example, lick her ankles - you do not have to go right back to her clitoris.