In less than twenty-four hours, I'm going to be attending a swinger's party in my home town in the UK - a gangbang, to be precise - as a single male; it's part of my way of getting over a recently failed relationship by exposing myself to new experiences. I've always considered an orgy/gangbang type experience to be an essential part of my personal 'bucket list'. I've had one or two threesomes, but nothing on this scale.
However, I'm very nervous, and haven't quite made up my mind whether or not I will definitely attend. There are things that concern me. 1: sexual health. Condoms will be provided, but having never been to something like this, I can imagine it might be possible that condoms could prove to be of limited efficiency, even if used diligently. 2: sheer nerves. 3: and I'm sorry if this sounds shallow - but the club in question, which is held in a private residence not that far from where I live, hosts photographs of past events, and although I'm no Brad Pitt myself, I'm afraid to say that judging by the evidence some of the women who attend this club are far, far from being beautiful. I'm hoping/praying that they are not entirely typical of the women who will be in attendance. I'm not so foolish as to expect to be presented with breathless naked models, but even averagely attractive or arousing women would be a blessing.
I'm just wondering if someone here with experience of such events could give me advice on what to expect?
Fenix-3, is it that bcoz you had 3some with your wife , and you broke up. And hence you want to burst your anger on some lady. And so you are planning for gang bang! Gang bang is no fun for boys. You check with any body. Its just fun to see those clips. Better you plan fmm or ffm or ffmm or fffm or mmmf. See girls enjoying with each other occastionally playing with you. If you really want to enjoy dont go for more than 5 in a room. Ideally it can be 3 only. There is no point waiting for your turn. Atleast my hubby's views are this. I dont know if he has ever tried gangbang without my knowledge.
Lets see what are others view on this.
You better be clear on what event you are attending. A gangbang, from wiki and urban dictionary, is several people, usually men, having sex with one person, usually a woman. An orgy is quite different and is group sex - multiple men and women having sex with a variety.
I have no related experience in orgies but do believe that you should clarify what is going on. With respect to safe sex, it is not. Condoms help but there needs to be other cleaning up facilities available and remember that herpes can be transmitted from the area not covered by a condom. Good luck, if you decide to attend.
I'll clarify. It was what is advertised as a 'greedy girls party', meaning there are a good few more men than women, or so I understand. I decided at the last minute not to attend because of health and safety concerns. I'll hold back until I know to the letter what I'm getting involved in.
No, my ex-partner and I did not have a threesome, anything of that nature was very much not on the cards. Our reasons for splitting up were entirely mundane and related to incompatibility, not necessarily sexual. Having given myself over to a very monogamous, straight-up relationship and seen it fail, I decided I would like to have certain experiences. I don't mind if they ultimately turn out to be negative, in the sense that I can at least say I've been there and done that.
A more fully mixed orgy-style situation would be preferable, but I'll have to wait until an opportunity to go to one as a single man becomes available, unless by some miracle I meet a girl who's into it. Unlikely, where I live. It's true that mmf or ffm situations can be powerfully erotic - I can certainly speak from experience - but do not often arise unless one is lucky enough to be in a relationship with someone willing to explore such experiences, which I was not.