The above advice is excellent. There are parts of this site that describe different ways of pleasing your partner.

fellatio techniques

handjobs

erogenous zones (very useful)

foreplay

woman on top positions

Theeeeerree you go!! Those are very good pages!

HAve fun!

-Mariah

Hey, some advice I could give is just pay attention to the guys body language, when you're running your fingers down his stomach watch his facial expressions, listen to his breathing... I find it very helpful as well to communicate with my partner and He tells me what he wants done to him...

If it's something Im not comfortable with I'll let him know and we'll compromise..cause you know I want nothing more than to just please my man... Like I don't want my guy to have alot of pubic hair because you'll get the hair stuck in your throat..(and trust me that isn't a pleasent thing)..
LOL ask him to trim up so you can properly give him a bj.If your comfortable with that, lick his shaft, rub lightly, and gently.

For handjobs he will also tell you how to grip his penis if your hand is too tight..Each guy is different, he may like it tight, or light..just know after a while the head of his penis will get sensative and you dont want to hurt him :P..So with not being boring, just talk...express what makes you feel good, and listen to eachother.. you will have a more intimate connection when you both are enjoying yourselves...don't be afraid to ask what he wants..Its all up to you about what your comfortable with doing, or not..Don't forget that.
I wish you luck..and keep it safe ;)
-Sarah

Here are my tips from a male point of view, but even though for the most part every guy has the same initial G spots of our own, certain things and kinks turn on or turn off certain guys. It's actually good and most of the time arousing to talk during sex to see what he wants, and him in return so he knwos what feels good for you etc.

I used to research sex and such years before I lost my viriginity, and reading tips online and especially this forum actually does help you, however no body can give u a 100% guidebook to your guy. I always read that communication was the key, and it's 100% correct, asking a guy what he wants not only clears up any confusion, but also might increase his arrousal, and you know you are doing something he's gonna enjoy.

Being on top is a great position and is pretty basic. You pretty much mount the guy's crotch after he is hard and you 'bob' up and down on his penis, even though thats a VERY VERY bad description and I realize it. It is pretty much a reversal of missionary where as the girl is now doing the majority of the work. Ive read that putting a pillow under the guys ass will increase the friction or ability of friction on the upper part of your vagina and/or clitoris which heightens your pleasure as well.

Heres a quick note however, every body is different with females as well, of course, so he might have been gentle the first time, which is great, that means he is caring for you, the second time might still be semi-painful or uncomfortable and may remain so for a few more times you have sex, until your body has gotten use to it. However, this may not be the case, and you may want to take on new experiences that require harder motions or more pentration.

For the most part, guys love personal attention to our penis and scrotum. You may not be ready but giving a guy oral to get him hard or harder is a great way to set the mood. The mouth provides a nice warm and wet place with a pleasent sucking motion that the vagina just can't do. However, that would be up to you and him. You may or may not know how to give a proper blowjob, I dont know the link but I'm sure there is a proper guide on this forum. However, if you do something wrong, guys will surely tell you, b/c say you use your teeth, thats very painful, and you are sure to hear about it. haha.

The biggest piece of advise is me being repetious (i guess I can't spell). COMMUNICATION. Talk to him during sex and/or other times about sex, about what he likes what he doesn't like, and find out what his boundries are, and let him know what he can and cannot do. Because I know some girls hate anal, but some girls absolutely love it or at least wanna try it, I wouldn't dare try it with a girl unless I knew she liked it, and if I didn't know and she loved it, she could be missing out of pleasure and the guy might be totally into to, so it goes both ways. Talk to him, guys are guys, they love talking about sex in general. If a guy is bashful, just tell him to moan if he likes something or give some sort of signal, if he doens't wanna tell you what he doesn't like, create a way for you two to know when something is out of bounds. Talk with the guy, I'm sure he is eager to talk to you.
-Dan