"Sex" as in intercourse or "sex" as in oral and/or a handjob?
I think I know what you mean and am just yanking your chain a little because so often we read posts that can be interpreted in different ways because what the person wants to discuss and what they described are not entirely clear.
Now, for a few more of the "twenty questions". Ya gotta give us some information on which to work.
* Why would you consider abstaining?
* What are some reasons not to?
* How old are the two of you?
* How long have you been together?
* If you did abstain, how long do you envision doing so?
* What religious or moral values contribute to the question?
sexual intercourse, i'm not really asking for myself, I just want to see what opinions everyone has on the topic, abstaining would be until marriage, we've been together 7 months, younger than 18, abstaining to be free from the risk of children, reasons not to becuz it will bring us closer, and to experiment
Squanto - stop it. You asked about abstinece so what did you think "No, Never" meant? Duh!
Yes I get impatient when you do not remember what the topic is esp when you're the one who posted it.
Let me see if I can help answer your last question there, Squanto. Our friend EvilEvilKitten kinda looks at sex as a recreational contact sport- always use protection to keep yourself safe then get your game on.
I was a "until marriage" girl once... then I kinda changed my mind. I think that a better goal would be abstinance until after you both turn 18 or something. This way you can reevaluate what you want responsibly.
Yes I did Squanto. Those statements began "In my case" and "In your case".
and Sass:
I've been married to the same wonderful man for 29 years. He remains the best man on the face of the planet and we love eachother dearly. We were dual military for the full 20 years and had two kids while enduring tdys and other separations and trials. I have his permission to do what I do and yes, even my lovers become life long friends and long term lovers. Some of my lovers work for me in my business.
So yes, I do have a different perspective about sex than you do - but that doesn't make it something you should scoff at or make it any less 'responsible'.
[COLOR="Red">Abstain from what?[/COLOR]
That is the question.
SEX of course
"Sex" as in intercourse or "sex" as in oral and/or a handjob?
I think I know what you mean and am just yanking your chain a little because so often we read posts that can be interpreted in different ways because what the person wants to discuss and what they described are not entirely clear.
Now, for a few more of the "twenty questions". Ya gotta give us some information on which to work.
* Why would you consider abstaining?
* What are some reasons not to?
* How old are the two of you?
* How long have you been together?
* If you did abstain, how long do you envision doing so?
* What religious or moral values contribute to the question?
sexual intercourse, i'm not really asking for myself, I just want to see what opinions everyone has on the topic, abstaining would be until marriage, we've been together 7 months, younger than 18, abstaining to be free from the risk of children, reasons not to becuz it will bring us closer, and to experiment
No, never.
In my case: because you slowly die inside.
In your case, you do not learn.
never what?
Squanto - stop it. You asked about abstinece so what did you think "No, Never" meant? Duh!
Yes I get impatient when you do not remember what the topic is esp when you're the one who posted it.
I am anti-abstinence, pro safe sex.
ehh you weren't too clear, plus ppl started talking about other things and stuff, so ok
and you never said your reasons for your answer
Let me see if I can help answer your last question there, Squanto. Our friend EvilEvilKitten kinda looks at sex as a recreational contact sport- always use protection to keep yourself safe then get your game on.
I was a "until marriage" girl once... then I kinda changed my mind. I think that a better goal would be abstinance until after you both turn 18 or something. This way you can reevaluate what you want responsibly.
Good luck and happy not-humping.
Yes I did Squanto. Those statements began "In my case" and "In your case".
and Sass:
I've been married to the same wonderful man for 29 years. He remains the best man on the face of the planet and we love eachother dearly. We were dual military for the full 20 years and had two kids while enduring tdys and other separations and trials. I have his permission to do what I do and yes, even my lovers become life long friends and long term lovers. Some of my lovers work for me in my business.
So yes, I do have a different perspective about sex than you do - but that doesn't make it something you should scoff at or make it any less 'responsible'.