Hey all
i am 19 y/o and i am having a long term relationship for the last two years. my lady is 35 and i'm so much into elder ladys, anyway, we're having sex like 4 times per week, i only last long in the second or the third time making, but the first time and sometimes the second time is taking like 8-10 mins, i know that sex is not just feeling the cock inside her pussy, i we're playing with each other and doing some hot things for us in the beginning everytime for like 15 mins, but i still don't like when i cum so fast like this in the first one, especialy that i wasn't like this before, i don't like masturbating, and when sometimes i tried to think about something else or anything during making i start to get out from my sexy mode, and i also know that i don't have to consentate in my cock all the time during making i have to be feeling all of my body and the moves and the touchs but this'z up to somethings and its not so easy for me, so, besides that when i use viagra it only makes my cock standing stronger, and one time i felt a little diffecult with breathing and it bothered me so much, now i'm thinking about some new idea's and i need some tips. and what is the most good products for lasting longer?
Sat, 01/10/2004 - 06:02
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about lasting longer
I myself lasted 4 hours with afew short breaks resulting in 20-30 orgasms in the woman and amazing sex. I never even came as when I actually tried to she was too sore to go on. We went to bed adn woke up an hour and a half later and did it again. I gave her 4 more orgasms and then I came and she had a really big one.
What is the key? Regular masturbation helps desensitize the penis. Do something called "edging" where you mastrubate to where you feel like you are about to cum and then just stop. Do this 10 times. Do this 5 or so days a week.
The most important thing is mind set. Have sex because you want to have sex. Get into a mode of lust where it is just you and your woman. Feel no pressure to perform. When you go inside, use your mind. Mind over body works. I can cum on demand.
Thanks babes.. i knew it was.. something...lol just couldnt remember WAHT!! silly me... thankyou
The name of the condom u mention (for a longer lasting performace) is durex performa.
ok one thing you can do.. is there is a condom... lol that acctually.. makes it so you last longer, not sure what its called.. but my bf used it.. because he came with hin like seconds.. for a while.. so.. he used that, it was HIS idea. not mine, i didn't really care.. but yea.. no there is a condom you can use.. it like "desensitizes" or some damn thing...
jamie
Take It Slow, Give Her A Couple Orgasms....Then Just Rest For Maybe 30secs...talking or feeling her up...then go at it again....and keep it up.....(did this last night with my girl....i lasted over an hour....in our 1st session)
If I understand your problem correctly, you are making love 3+ times a night and reaching orgasm within 8-10 minutes during the first two "sets".
First, let me say if you are making love that many times a night, I doubt she is going unsatisfied. Especially, when you say you last much longer on later rounds.
As to you desire to last longer on the initial rounds, there is a desensitizing cream that is suppose to prolong sexual arousal. Some brands can even be found in the grocery store. They are usually next to the birth control items.
Again... welcome to "Being a Male"...!
We're all different. There are lots of myths and so-on about what to eat, what to do, etc. to last longer, but the bottom line is... sex feels good... REAL good... and with the male physiology, it reaches climax rapidly if necessary, and once there, endorphines are released that (as you get older) make you tired and not-in-the-modd any more, so having your orgasm first can seem like a bummer.
Now, you're far from alone. From what I understand, that's about 98.6% of American males that would like to NOT 'go-so-quick' the first time around.
After a while, you learn how to pace things. For me, it means that 75% of our lovemaking is me doing stuff to her and not getting reciprocation; I'll perform oral, or rub her all-over... use my fingers on her... perform some intercourse, but then switch back to fingers and/or oral, etc.
For nights that we just want/need a quickie before bed, she may start with oral on ME (which gets me VERY close) and then she'll jump on-top and ride me until we both cum and then it's nighty-night for both of us.
Uhn... go slower? Nah, I dunno. But masturbation is nothing more than practice for the big game. Just the same I don't really know what to tell you.
alchohol makes you last longer. i once took daquil in the morning, at night i lasted an hour and fifty minutes, first session. no shit.
ya, im new. but i just found these "messageboards" so i decided to add my .02