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In addition, expect that all will not be peaches and cream, meaning, that as much as we desire to have things go without a hitch, it often does not. This is natural and of course, not unexpected.

A woman will often not experience an orgasm for a variety of reasons:
* She has never masturbated and therefore has not made the transmutation to becoming an orgasmic woman
* She will be distracted by all that is happening
* Any pain or discomfort will be enough to prevent an orgasm from happening

So, in my never to be so humble opinion, the first time and the next few should all be about making love, not having intercourse even though you will be doing it or making the attempt. It is the intimacy that is important.

If your partner is capable of enjoying orgasms, then help her to have one or more before attempting intercourse and then afterward if it is her desire.

The best position for first-time intercourse is the Woman Superior in which the man reclines face up while his partner straddles his body facing him. She can squat, kneel, or semi-recline on her forearms--whatever works. This position is best because it gives her control over the placement of the penis, angle of penetration, pressure against the vaginal opening and hymen if it exists, speed and depth of penetration, speed of stroking and thrusting. The position also is one of the few that places her genitals in constant contact with the man's body so that there is sufficient stimulation to bring about an orgasm if she is capable.

Look around the Boards, there is plenty of information on first time intercourse.