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Read all you can and listen to these tips ... but I think you also just have to pay attention to her body. *Don't treat it like a performance where you have to do everything "right" .... treat it like a non-verbal, physical dialogue ....
Find out how much response you can get with the minimum of contact with her clitoris. *My boyfriend can just move his tongue AROUND it, without quite touching it, and once he gets the rhythm right I can have multiple orgasms just from that. *(The value of not touching it directly is it doesn't become overly-sensitive. *Also, when he goes down on me, I like to have him insert two fingers into my vagina .... He doesn't have to move them, in fact I prefer if he doesn't ... I just like that pressure ...)
But there are no black-and-white rules, and if you're receptive to her body and what it's telling you, sometimes you can break the "rules" with stunning results. *A while ago my guy was going down on me like I just described, not quite touching my clit, and I'd had like two or three nice little orgasms, and then -- inspired, I guess -- he suddenly wrapped his whole mouth over my clit and sucked it and sucked it and sucked it in a totally shocking and violent maneuver. *This gave me the biggest, most incredible, earth-shattering orgasm I've ever had in my life, which ended with me literally fainting dead away. It was amazing.
So, bottom line: *educate yourself, but be receptive to her ...
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