Believe me... I realize this. As far as the oposition, I've been dealing with it since I decided to go for this. But as far as I'm concerned, I value the relationship far too much to allow the opinions of other bother me. And yes... I know we can not be legally married here, believe me, I have searched for every single loophole by this point. And lastly, the children topic, I realize the chances of problems, I've done all the research, heard the results of so many studies. And on top of that, I've gotten a genetic report done... alteast I believe that is what it is called... it was so long ago. She also got one done.And according to the results, our child only has a 7% higher chance than something being wrong with any of your children. For those who do not know... 'inbreeding' (

I hate that word) doesn't instantly result in a deformed or retarded child... after a few generations of continued 'inbreeding' the chance increase drastically.