I get in here and read these posts once in a while. The thing you gotta remember is all us men love our women to give us BJ's. I have never met a straight man who didn't love a woman going down on him. I admit I have had really good BJ's, and I have had a few not so good ones. The women I knew I was going to see for a while, I'd do my best to try to improve their techniques. Women will listen to what you want most of the time. (Unless you want something really wacko when you're just startin out together). When I was going out with my wife a few years back before we got married, it was obvious to me she had no clue what to do or how to do it. Today is a much different story. She got there by me telling her what felt good, what I wanted, and by me earning her trust. The other side of that is you got to be patient, and willing to give her a little time. It don't hurt to amaze her with your oral skills either, makes her want to do a better job. Do what you feel, and do it like you mean it. In the end, you'll be happy.
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