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This is a very nice board and I'd like to contribute.
As with every other sexual practice, there are a multitude of good and bad methods for giving a handjob. I have to differ with several of the posters who don't give it much weight over self masterbation.
A good handjob sends chills up my spine. Ladies, bring a bottle of oil to bed and warm up your hands. Slowly and gently stroke your partner's penis from the base over the tip. Try a slightly firmer grip on the up stroke and a light stroke on the way down. Keep in mind that the underside of the shaft is the most sensitive area. Using your thumb to lightly rub the underside of the shaft and head will drive your guy crazy. Alternate with one hand on the penis and the other gently stroking his scrotum and the area between his scrotum and the rectum as well as the insides of his theighs.
Don't forget to apply more oil as you go along. I think many women (at least some that I've been with) think that the man really wants you to speed up as he nears climax. In my opinion, the intensity of the orgasm is much greater if the stroking of the penis and scrotum continues to be slow, soft and only slightly firmer.
I think if you try it this way, and continue to ask your man what he likes and doesn't, a handjob, clitoral stimulation and best of all, mutual masterbation makes a great holiday from vaginal sex.
JMHO
BTW, This is also an incredible method when you're showering with your guy. Only substitute bath oils.
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