OK, so this won't be the most helpful advice, but it is from a female's point of view. *Anyway, when you are fingering a girl there isn't much technique in my opinion. *I love it when a guy does it to me and I guess what gets me going is more than one finger and a circular type motion and then there is the occasional massage you can give her at the same time in the spot right between her vagina and anus. *But, every girl it different and is stimulated differently. *My best advice is don't read all those articles on fingering and assume what one guy says works is the way to go. *Listen to your girlfriend and she'll tell you if she likes what you are doing. *Play around, your fingers move in many ways. *As for oral sex, I think you need to do your own thing and listen to see what your girlsfriend enjoys the most. *I'm not a huge fan of giving oral sex so I don't really get much of it and that is fine by me. *sorry I can't be of more help, but I know that when a guy does something and I'm enjoying it I'm sure to let him know because I want him to keep going and I think most girls are the same way, it is a somewhat selfish internal mechanism females have.
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