Hi,
I am going to visit my girlfriend in a few weeks, and since the last time we saw each other we have been talkng. We have both decided we want to experiment with sexual activities more. I have fingered her once, but I didnt know how. I talked to her afterword and she said I hurt her and I did some research and found out some possible reasons why it hurt. I am definitely going to be more careful next time we do that kind of thing. Anyway... We also were talking about doing more than just fingering. She asked me if I would ever go down on her and I said yes, but only if she wanted me to. I kind of took that as a hint to maybe try it. Of course, if she says no, or pushes me away, I will stop on a dime. I would do anything for this girl.
I did some research, but I had a question for all you girls(and women).
Are there any techniques for fingering or oral that really REALLY hit the spot for you? you know, ones that give you fist clenching orgasms? I wondered because i dont care about me getting "relieved" as along as she gets off first. I really want to please her but I dont really know what would really do the trick. Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks.
JRobida999