[chuli]

yo all females are not the same like stephanie said so asking other women what they like might not necessairly help you with your girl.what i do with my girlfriend is tell her to go down there with you and guide you,have her play around with your fingers on top of hers find out what she likes and doesn't. Then when you think its time to go on (on your own) tell her to feel free to tell you if she feels uncomfortable or if it hurts. If she doesn't feel right tuching her self then you might have to do all that on your own(exploring). if your doing that then you are not trying to please but just finding out wat feels good to her asking her if this feels good as you go along.