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Nicholas, we're gonna have to start a new forum to focus on your issues about this relationship. Just kidding guy. I'm going to make it real simple with a couple questions for you to think about:
Where do you see yourself in 10 years? If your 10-year plan includes marriage and/or a family would you rather be married to a lovely, ambitious, successful, I-know-what-I-want-in-life woman; or do you see yourself married to a "baby factory" who watches soaps in her housecoat all day, but has your mac 'n cheese on the table when you come home from work?
I can tell from your posts that you're a pretty sharp guy, not at all unlike most guys in your peer group- wondering who you are and where you're going in life.
YOU ARE YOUR OWN PERSON. Not a shadow of your g/f nor that of your parents. Sounds to me like you are very much good for her and if you can get over the lack of self esteem and be supportive of your g/f and recognize the value that you probably help bring to her successes.
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