[Rawbob]

Well, the other members have made good points, but to be honest, it sounds like you have some overall self esteem issues! It sounds like you're struggling with the fact that you're afraid that SHE and OTHERS will compare you to each other, and day, "Well, that won't last because she's an athlete with goals and skills, and he's just driving around in an expensive car his parents GAVE him."

And you know what? If all you portray and act on is your wealth, then YES, you'll probably always feel "lesser" than those who have truely EARNED the things they have received.

If you REALLY want to do something about your feelings, start looking into what key skills and talents you have and also what brings you JOY and go for it.

But always remember! There will ALWAYS be someone bigger, stronger, faster, richer, more popular, more talented, etc than you - it's just a fact of life. So, don't totally beat yourself up about it, but also, don't just sit around and wine about your lack of self-esteem if all you're doing about it is driving around a $30,000 car your folks gave you!