[demonbuttercup]

well i enjoy oral very much i remember when my b/f went down on me the first time it was like the most amazing thing ever. i dont always orgasm from oral i just enjoy it while its happening. it is always a good prelude to the main event. also, if and when i do orgasm he is usually fingering me at the same time he's stimulating my clit. maybe if your b/f mixes it up and does some combinations of things it would help you out. and like the others said, being relaxed and comfortable is one of the main things. it takes awhile to become completely comfortable the first time a guy has his face down there. i know theres things your worrying about. just relax and enjoy the special attention.