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Hi Honeyb- If I'm not mistaken (based on past posts) you've just begun having sex. It's not at all unusual for women to be unable to achieve orgasm from penetration alone. Manual stimulation from your mate or by you can help you reach orgasm.
However, you appear to indicate that you wouldn't even know if you had an orgasm. So, first I'll give you an answer, then I'll step up on the soapbox.
You say "i dont know what i am supposed to feel to know im cumming." Go read up on masturbation. Get to know your body a bit better and identify the areas that give you the most pleasure. When you achieve orgasm, there will be no mistaking it. Also be aware that some women simply do not achieve orgasm.
Now for my soapbox. It falls in line with my "Why the Rush" post in the Dating forum. Many young women (and men) on the board are "ready" for their first time. They've "prepared" for it and believe they are physically and emotionally prepared to have sexual intercourse.
I cannot think of any way to say this without sounding preachy so I'll just "say" it. This is an example of a young person who has chosen to share her body with another person- and there is nothing inherently wrong with that. However, unless I misread your post, you don't know your OWN body yet. If the lure of sex is to expand on the pleasures one has already experienced leading up to sexual intercourse, how can one wonder whether or not they are enjoying it to the fullest?
Again, I'm not laying judgement on you or anyone else on this board, I simply don't get it.
BTW- There are no "stupid" questions around here. No one should ever be afraid to ask questions about sex.
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