I don't always like being fingered and didn't like it from my ex (long term). I can tell you that I am really not into being fingered if I am not already turned on. But the #1 for me is that I have to be caressed on some other part of the body at the same time. Kissing counts big-time as "other". Also, if you can stimulate her clit while fingering, it should make a big difference.
I know this is a late response to your question, but I hope it helps!
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