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Well, if she says she enjoys it then I don't think you need to worry much. When my boyfriend fingers me it is ten times more intense when we kissing. I guess location and position really matters for that, but it is so much nicer than a guy just jabbing his fingers around you. I'm sure you could have figured that out yourself, you just need to remember it. And kissing doesn't just have to be a mouth to mouth deal, I love getting little kisses anywhere, especially my neck where the jaw and neck meet.
Not that this is really an option for you, but before I had my own room and I used to sleep in my boyfriend's room on the weekends and it really got me going when he'd finger me with his rommate sleeping like 5 feet away. I'm not too into erotica etc. but it was just such a thrill to know that at any minute we could be had. So, in other words, maybe there is something that would mentally stimulate your girlfriend.
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