i think whateva ppl say to u your first time is always going to be a little uncomfortable but after a while it just starts to feel really good and its just getting to that point! just make sure that you boyfriends understands this and that he goes slow with you and is careful and doesnt put it in to fast or hardly! i was always told that the best way to make a pain a little less is to get your boyfriend to finger you first to slaken u a bit and also so that you get wet enough so that it can slide in easily so lots of foreplay b4 hand which is no bad thing!! i hope that eventually use start having sex when use wanna and that it wont hurt u and just think after the first time it will be out of the way and u wont feel as stressed or ne thing about it! hope i have helped a bit luv sam xxxx
