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Personally, I think you have to enjoy what you are doing and not send off any negative vibes to your partner. *If you show him or even tell him you are enjoying pleasuring him, all the better.
What I like to do is slowly work my way down to his penis. Sucking on his nipples and kissing/licking my way down. While kissing his chest I like positioning the penis between my breasts and gently squeezing. When reaching the pelvic area, I kiss and lick everywhere BUT his penis. Licking and gently nibbling on the inner thighs. When I see that he has had enough of the teasing I gently run the tip of my tongue from the bottom of his shaft all the way to the tip. *And slowly build up the intensity. *I like to insert just the very tip of the head into my mouth and little by little take more of it in. *At this point I like to keep the rythym soft and slow. I like to build up the pressure by tightening my lips and my hand(s) around the shaft while still keeping a slow rythym. *As my hand strokes the shaft I like running my tongue over the scrotum and softly (!) sucking on his testicles. *I also like to alternate between hard and slow strokes with quick and soft strokes. *I also like applying pressure to the perineum with my finger or my tongue. * And I always makes sure that my lips are secured tightly around my teeth. *
I think some of the key things to remember (at least from my experience it might not be for all men)are:
a) saliva, saliva, saliva..it keeps the penis well lubricated
b) alternating your speed/pressure, alternating between using just your lips and tongue, to just using your hand, to using both, it keeps him guessing and makes the experience less "boring"
c) work that tongue, always keep it moving, circle the head, make figure 8's, spell out your name...just keep it moving.
d) and last but not least, Enjoy yourself!
This is just what works for me, haven't had many complaints as of yet. *I could go into more detail, but I think I've detailed enough. *Every guy is different, therefor they like different things, get your partner to tell you what he likes. *Don't be affraid to speak up, you'll both be happier campers!
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