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Old 11-10-2001, 12:29 PM
Claudia Claudia is offline
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I have two suggestions for you.
First, Buy a vibrator. Start out with a simple, not too intimidating one. Then if she'll go for it, blindfold her and start going down on her. When she least suspects it
bring out the vibrator. Once she experiences the sensations seh may just let you carry on.
Second, if she won't go for the above, then leave the vibrator with her and tell her she can experiment with it on her own time and when she feels ready to share the experience with you to let you know.

Her curiosity may get the best of her and like I said, once she experiences the sensations she'll may have different perspective on things.

If none of this works, then be frank with her. Tell her her prudishness is standing in the way of your having an incredible relationship both in and out of the sack. If the relationship means a lot to her, she may be willing to let go of a lot of her inhibitions.

Be patient with her. Many women have been brought up thinking sex is durty. Its hard to let go, of years of negative talk. Tell her if she experiments with pleasing herself, she can then teach you how to please her. Both of you will benefit in the long run.

Hope this helps. Good luck
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