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a couple of things:
i'm guessing she's young. as others have suggested, young chicks have mixed feelings about sex...and chances are there are 2 particular things that are holding her back.
1. she's afraid, even if it's not conscious, that you'll think she's a slut and share that information with all your friends. guys have no idea how much they mess themselves up when they do that. a girl is much more likely to be willing to experiment if she knows it's just between the two of you. and that you respect her sexuality. meaning, let her know that you think whatever it is she does is awesome. don't focus so much on what she won't do. simple things like saying 'i love it when you ______ like that' etc.
2. self-consciousness about how she looks/smells. etc. one of my first lovers was really smart that way. he used to just look at my pussy, and talk about how beautiful it was and how much he loved being able to look and touch etc. when i was comfortable with that, believe me, he got a lot more action than he would have otherwise, i'm sure.
if you love her, be sure to tell her that when she's being her most sexual. all the reluctance is about fear of rejection, after all.
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