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OK, here goes. There is a clear relationship between the age of women beginning to masturbate and sexual satisfaction/interest later in life. The earlier we start playing with ourselves, the more interested we are likely to be later. Certainly individuals overcome this, but this is the general pattern.
Religion, old-fashioned sex ed and all that stuff that tells kids (boys and girls) that it is not nice to touch yourself down there delays masturbation - especially in women. In boys it builds up a head of steam and out it comes in a dream. That does not happen to women without some help.
I was raised that way and, even so, started fiddling with myself about the time my period started. Felt good but no great stuff until I accidently had an orgasm. Then it became a weekly event for me and, naturally, I told my best friend about it. We used to masturbate together and 25 years later, still do sometimes.
Bottom line, your girlfriend is up tight about her own sexual feelings and is not likely to loosen up without professional help.
Brandye
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