Hi there,
I'm just wondering if 69 is enjoyable for women or not? To me, the idea seems pretty incredible, but my Girlfriend told me she likes to be able to just focus on the pleasure I'm giving her while I'm giving her head.
Can you ladies give any thoughts to this?
Thanks,
Andrew


I doubt that any woman will give you an absolute yes or no. Because there are no absolutes. My girlfriend and I do engage in mutual cunillingus - 69 style - sometimes. I have with boyfriends. I have and do enjoy it.
More often than not, I prefer one do the other and turn about with oral sex. Mood, time, how long has it been. I even developed a little way to scoot around and get under him as part of my response to him.
Sometimes I really do not want to.
Too many people want absolute answers when what we need is variability.
Me and boyfriend have only 69 once, but it was fun. I would rather one of us go down on the other one and then switch, because I couldn't concentrate on what both of us were doing. I guess what they say is right, "Blondes can't do 2 things at once." Ha ha.
i've done it a few times but i find it hard to concentrate on 2 things at once
cannot say 'cause all girls are diffrent, but I will say one thing you have to mix it up. Cannot do the same thing all the time. Girls would like it once or twice, but do diffrent things.
Just because I prefer Meatlovers Pizza doesn't mean I don't also enjoy all the other varieties. I would get bored with something if that was all there was, no matter how much I liked it! Same with sex.
Brandye hit the nail on the head ... variety is much more fun than absolutes.
Sorry, just had to tie in my 2 favorite subjects ... sex and food!
IMHO i think ot is great! Especially when she gets really excited she sucks and fondles with a passion.
i don't think i'd like to do it like, with a boyfriend, but if it's just kinda like a random hook up, why not
my girl loves 69 because it gives awesome simultaneous pleasure, and its safer than intercourse. At first she believed that we couldnt concentrate on each other, but we soon the increadible rythem and passion of 69. By the way, laying on sides is really comfortable and effective.
I love it, you both get pleasure at the same time. No one is losing out. I think that when giving pleasure and getting pleasure at the same time makes me want to do it more. It gets me more excited then just giving it.
I've never done it before, although I would be up for it. Just getting fingered and giving a handjob or giving head at the same time is pretty intense. I did have little difficulty concentrating though, and I think the better it feels for you the better you want to make it feel for someone else.
yes sometimes its better to do things one at a time and concentrate on the other person... but also its fun to 69. at first its kinda tough to do 2 things at once but after a few times u get the hang of it. i especially enjoy it b/c the intensity is reciprocated between each other.u start to just get into the zone... he makes me feel good so then i start to moan and that feels good on his penis...so then he starts getting more intense...then i start getting close and the closer i get, the faster and more intense i suck on him... till we both finally cum
Personally, I love to 69. I prefer to 69 over 68 because if he does something that makes me feel realy good, then it makes me want to please him the same way. We continue like this until one of use can't take it anymore. It just makes our sex that much better.
Hmm acctually, i hated the 69... and... then again i don't like... being eaten out either... to me i'd rather focus my energy on the person and let them just... go into a "zone" where.. they feel how much energy im putting in wanting them happy.
I don't enjoy it. It isn't for lack of enjoyment, it's the inability to do it easily. My man is over 6 foot tall. I am barely 5 foot, things just don't seem to match up all that well. I'd rather focus completely on him though. When we have attempted 69 I have to stop because of the enjoyment he gives me. I feel like I leave him jipped.
I like doing 69 with me on top. That way I can control the depth and can position myself right where I want to be. Lots of fun. Although we do kind of have a prob when one of us starts to feel really good we kind of forget to continue working on the other, lol. We usually do it one at a time, but it's cool sometimes to mix things up.
I find it so sexy and i wanna do it some more with my boyfriend.
I ran a short probe into this in June. My difficulty was getting into a reciprocal postion without feeling impertanent. Unfortunately my circumstances changed before I put theory into practice. But I do believe that it is possible and can be good, but only for an experienced couple who have worked through other boundaries and techniques.
I love it it is enjoyable
I enjoy it to some extent. It's great if I want to delay orgasm. (just oral versus 69) I tend to orgasm too quickly if its just oral. But then again I am not a big fan of receiving oral, I'd rather orgasm from a penis.
eliza
usually
the man lays down then the girl straddles his face going the opposite direction.
that way he can perform oral on her and the girl leans down and performs oral on him.
you can also do the same thing but laying on your sides... sometimes this is more comfortable.
Man does cunnilingus while woman does fellatio- It looks like a 69 from the side, with a little imagination.
hey, sorry man! dun have any idea of what 69 is. i mean how does e position look like?