ok so i tried to 69 the other day with this guy im seeing. and it sucked. he came so fast. he usually doesnt come that fast but for some reason 69 made him come really fast. is this normal? did i do something wrong maybe?
Tue, 02/22/2005 - 22:15
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69 sucks
Me and my boyfriend have tried 69 a few times, he likes it better than I do. I like the position because I find it easier for me, I am new at blowjobs (he's the only one and I have only tried it a few times) and I like to be on top from that angle. It works for me. However, I don't get much pleasure from HIM working on me at that angle, so the actual idea of us both getting pleasure at the same time doesn't work out so well, but it works for me giving him pleasure, if that makes sense. He can work on me other ways....
in my 69 experience, i find it less pleasurable because i cant fully concentrate. however, the 69 adds just a pinch of kink so its really a turn on to suggest it. as for the actual orgasam, i love to give my girl oral as i cum, i think it turns her on even more !
[QUOTE=Quote (eowyn @ Feb. 22 2005,14:15)]ok so i tried to 69 the other day with this guy im seeing. and it sucked. he came so fast. he usually doesnt come that fast but for some reason 69 made him come really fast. is this normal? did i do something wrong maybe?[/QUOTE]
maybe when u can feel him twitching or groaning you should pause for a bit so he gets a bit of control then go again
sounds like you got it spot on
i dont like that possition, its unconfortable and i lose sensibility while i'm giving pleasure to my bf
[QUOTE=Quote (Alspals69 @ Feb. 22 2005,15:53)]And i thought girls could multi task!![/QUOTE]
lmao! ur so right!
I think i have only tried it side by side. How odd... i wonder why.
Absolutely Tess... side to side is by far the best 69.
It gives alot of freedom of movement and opportunities to be creative back and forth between each other.
I think the best position for a 69 is for both to be on their sides more or less.
I also don't think it has to be an even thing. Many times if I am really liking what he is doing I just stop doing him for a minute or two and we focus on me and that switches between us back and forth.
I prefer to be on top too.. I'm not on the bottom for long. Just like to let it happen if he likes it.
I agree with demon. I'd much rather be on top during 69. I like having control of how much goes into my mouth. And then there's the issue of being the smaller one so him having a lot of his weight on me. Now 69 with another girl. That's a totally different story.
Ive never had much luck w/ him on top.
I don't get much mobility on my part and its either a bad angle or he's shoved down my throat... and thats no fun.
Also, the view I get just isn't that appealing, lol.
Yeah I know, he gets the same view from me... but ya know :P
Yup, been there too... but by the time I'm on bottom, I'm more interested in him being down my throat and me getting up close and personal to the butt. The angle can be a challenge. The fit and weight of the bodies has to be considered too for it to be pleasurable.
Who was on top? Sometimes that can make a difference in the pleasure. Lots of different things to explore both ways and then rolling is fun too to change whose on top.
I know guys are supposed to be easily aroused etc, but I can be so focused on pleasing her, that I am in danger of not cumming myself.
I find it rather distracting as well. It's really hard to concentrate on what I'm doing if I'm getting so much pleasure like that. Somehow I do seem to manage though.
And i thought girls could multi task!!
For me it definetly takes some practice.
I also kind of find it distracting on my part... probably same for guys but opposite effect.
If Im getting pleasure, I works better for me to relax and focus on the pleasure... otherwise, doing/talking too much makes it hard for me to orgasm.
Maybe for guys, they have to think the opposite and focus on not cumming too quick. However, during a 69 they are doing many things at once and can't really focus... i dunno? lol
This is totally normal. A mixture between receiving and giving oral can be quite intense.
Maybe you should take it a little slower with his blow job. Take more time just teasing him and making it really intense as if you're trying to make him cum. I know that's usually the goal but just slow it down until you feel like you're closer to cumming.
69 can be a wonderful and erotic experience I hope you have some better luck with it in the future.
Sounds like you did something right to me!!
He clearly liked it. Yes, i think it is not unusual for this to happen. Men seam to like anything involving a blow-job.
Of course it isn't so good if you didn't get to cum too. Maybe he just needs to get used to it if he is new at it. I'd not worry about it for now, but if it becomes a habbbit that you don't get satisfaction too, then you need to say something.
Once i have cum, i am often totally sapped of energy. For this reason i try never to be the first one to cum.