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is 6 inch penis long enough to reach the cervix?

im a 23 year old black male and my penis size is 6 and 1/2 we im fully erect, i have a girlfriend and we had sex once but since then she has told me she loves it deep in her vagina, what i want to know is will my penis be long enough to reach her cervix? cause the first and only time we did it she was very wet and i couldnt really feel anything so i wasnt sure.

also in her past relationship she had sex alot like almost everyday and up to like 4 or 5 times in that day for a period of 3-4 months...does that have an effect on her vagina being loose? also what makes a womens vagina loose is it when i enter her or when im inside her and i cant feel her wall around my penis?

The vagina is normally about four inches long and an inch in diameter or a bit less. During sexual arousal it elongates and balloons, not unlike a penis becoming erect. Regardless of penis length, hitting the cervix is not really common and neither of you would even be aware unless a direct poke causes a pain in her.

Sexual activity does not usually affect the size of the vagina. Only having a baby or a great change in weight affects this. She may like it deep but there are no nerves in the vagina. We get a sense of deepness from the pressure on the vulva or pressure on other internal organs. If she does have a great ballooning of her vagina during arousal, you will feel less rubbing on your penis because it will be touching the vaginal walls only lightly. Most of the action for a woman is felt near the entrance and that is where she is narrowest. Some deep thrust give her the sense of fullness and shallower thrusts will get your corona stimulated by the muscles around her entrance.

Dear BB4LIF3,
Hitting the cervix could result in pain while thrusting against it, as Brandye points out. But I would like to add that in certain positions him rubbing against it, I find this very pleasing :o Perhaps your gf likes this, perhaps she doesn't. To my bf it feels like this very tiny bump rubbing against the head of his penis, something like the tiny tip of a nose (odd comparison perhaps, but it's the best I can think of ;)). It does not make a big difference in sensation to him, I guess it's more like the way how I react to it that's rewarding. We use the folded deckchair-position to create this rubbing. This may differ for each couple. And as the position and shape of the cervix changes over her cycle, it's at times harder to find and sensation -for both her and you- may vary also. Just keep on experimenting, as it's the only way to find out :)

Have fun!

To hell with reaching her cervix - why would you want to?

You need to reach the posterior fornix, the anterior fornix and the G-Spot. 6 and 1/2 inches can do that.

Go look up female anatomy and then consult the article The Four Hotspots found somewhere in theis website.

Your pointer finger will touch the cervix.

> she has told me she loves it deep in her vagina, what i want to know is will my penis be long enough to reach her cervix?

The vagina has no nerves. What she feels and enjoys is a sense of fullness, and you are more than adequate in this regard.

> the first and only time we did it she was very wet and i couldnt really feel anything so i wasnt sure.

The reason you "couldn't really feel anything" is because when a woman is very highly aroused, the vagina enlarges in circumference quite a bit, so it is not rubbing against you much.

> in her past relationship she had sex alot like almost everyday and up to like 4 or 5 times in that day for a period of 3-4 months...does that have an effect on her vagina being loose?

Not likely, since what you feel as "tight" is the vaginal sphincter. Note the comment, above.

[QUOTE=RedRoses;259246]Dear BB4LIF3,
Hitting the cervix could result in pain while thrusting against it, as Brandye points out. But I would like to add that in certain positions him rubbing against it, I find this very pleasing :o Perhaps your gf likes this, perhaps she doesn't. To my bf it feels like this very tiny bump rubbing against the head of his penis, something like the tiny tip of a nose (odd comparison perhaps, but it's the best I can think of ;)). It does not make a big difference in sensation to him, I guess it's more like the way how I react to it that's rewarding. We use the folded deckchair-position to create this rubbing. This may differ for each couple. And as the position and shape of the cervix changes over her cycle, it's at times harder to find and sensation -for both her and you- may vary also. Just keep on experimenting, as it's the only way to find out :)

Have fun![/QUOTE]

Absolutely right.

I am also 6.5" and my wife does not particularly like me going in the whole length. Oddly, there are some positions where she does not mind too much (doggy and her on her back with knees on her chest). I say oddly because these 2 positions are, from what I've read, good for deep penetration. Could possibly be that the curvature of the body in these positions "changes" the "angle of attack"... Also, in these 2 positions she will get a powerful orgasm...

So, after this post, I guess I'm...er... none the wiser...

The vagina's length is mainly below and behind the cervix so in order to go in "deep" you also have to go "down" - Yes, the 'angle of attack' has to be correct else you end up doing something you may have intended.

Remember- up and just a bit in for the G-Spot (sit more upright); then down and all in (usually) for the posterior fornix (lean over her more but don't lie on top of her).

Uhmmm... from what others have posted, I'm getting the feeling that my reply seems technically wrong(?) I usually value advice of EEK, Doc and Brandye. On the other hand; I really believe this is what I'm feeling... And it's not like I'm completely in the dark, since I touch my cervix once a day. Not that this is an extremely arousing feeling ;) but it certainly is sensitive, especially in infertile periods when it's "closed". In certain positions I recognize this feeling; whenever he brushing up against it... which is pleasurable when done rhythmic (which does not mean the cerix is "at the end", as EEK points out, so you wouldn't even need a long penis to reach it ;)) I do reckon that I receive pleasure from him putting pressure on other area's as well, which I believe is g- and a-spot... That's harder to tell since I don't get that feeling in any other way than through sex, so it's hard to recognize.

Anyways question would be: Is my reply describing something that is physically/ biologically/ technically impossible?

[QUOTE=RedRoses;259246]Dear BB4LIF3,
[COLOR="blue">Hitting the cervix could result in pain while thrusting against it, as Brandye points out.

But I would like to add that in certain positions him rubbing against it, I find this very pleasing :o Perhaps your gf likes this, perhaps she doesn't. [/COLOR]

I'll concur as I have been involved in both the pain and the pleasure, depending upon the women and presumably the time of the month.

Once I discovered the cervix with my finger, I became intrigued by it and used to rub my finger over its surface. Years later, my findings are that two partners enjoyed it sometimes, and all mostly not.

In addition to caressing it with my finger, I sometimes tried to apply pressure and move it slightly. I quickly discovered this is a definite no-no. Conclusion: while we males of the species may be intrigued and fascinated with the organ, and while handling it can in a few situations be pleasurable, mostly it is not for the owners.
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To my bf it feels like this very tiny bump rubbing against the head of his penis, something like the tiny tip of a nose (odd comparison perhaps, but it's the best I can think of[/COLOR] ;)[COLOR="blue">).

It does not make a big difference in sensation to him, I guess it's more like the way how I react to it that's rewarding. [/COLOR]

Like I have said in the past, "explore and learn together". Just be open to the fact that there might be times when handling it may be pleasurable and at other times not so much.

[COLOR="blue">We use the folded deckchair-position to create this rubbing. This may differ for each couple. And as the position and shape of the cervix changes over her cycle, it's at times harder to find and sensation -for both her and you- may vary also. Just keep on experimenting, as it's the only way to find out[/COLOR] :)
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Much depends upon the relative body sizes involved, length of the penis, and, its angle when erect.

> Anyways question would be: Is my reply describing something that is physically/ biologically/ technically impossible?

I believe your experience is the reciprocal of mine.

It is just from my experience - when he rams into my cervix I have to be pried off of the ceiling with a crowbar. IT HURTS!

So DON'T do it.

(Note: causing pain to EEK results in immediate greivous bodily injury to the offending male.)

As your age is just 23 so I think 6 and 1/2 inches is normal size to satisfy a girl.
You don't need to worry about its size.