Last night my boyfriend Seb and I were having sex (positioning: Me flat on my back, him on top) and he hit my g-spot and kept triggering it for about 5 seconds and OMG it felt so good!!!! But....then something happened and the feeling disappeared but I felt no difference in thrusts or anything so I don't know what happened!? It's like the thing skips around or something. xD
Has this ever happened to anyone? :(
Tue, 05/15/2007 - 19:46
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5 Second G-Spot


Even the slightest change in position can cause this. My thought is that you became quite relaxed or excited and adjusted the way your hips were positioned. Thank god the G-Spot doesn't move around, otherwise I wouldn't be able to experience my body shaking orgasms!
maybe you tightened your muscles a bit? that happens to me too sometimes, try that gain, slowly varying angles and you'll find it again :)
The various angles that stimulate the various parts are difficult to identify. Enjoy what you get.
There is also the issue over sensitivity where the nerves will shut down esp after orgasming the first time. Too much friction? Perhaps some more lubricant? Take a deep breath, relax and try again later during the same 'session'.
Yeah we've tried and only about once or twice more of numerous times having sex he has triggered it and the whole g-spot orgasm just didn't last too long, but it's no biggie. I was only wondering anyway. ;) Thank you all.
After caressing the G-Spot, move to the posterior fornix area and stimulate that - then move back and forth from the PF to the G-Spot and back again!
I feel like I have finally found the G spot.
But usually, as you say, it seems to disappear.
And the other day I was 'way up there' and went backwards and hit my head on the bedside table. Not good!
[QUOTE=K4L;189323]I feel like I have finally found the G spot.
But usually, as you say, it seems to disappear.
And the other day I was 'way up there' and went backwards and hit my head on the bedside table. Not good![/QUOTE]
hahaha is there a bump?
so all this talk about the g spot.. so many say that there is a percentage of women unable to reach orgasm internally.. although the more people i talk to and seek out it seems as if im in a very small minority.. i have been sexually active for some time now and have had a few seriouse relationships... i've been with my current partner for two years now.. the fact that sex is unable to help me achieve orgasm troubles him to no avail.. even to the extent that he feels inadequate and almost selfish during intercourse, with the knowledge he will not get me off. i've tried masturbation, and my clitoris works just fine.. as i feel as if ive lost all hope i still hope to believe i'm missing important pieces to the puzzle.. help... i want to share this with him and for myself, i'd love to feel like a complete woman.. instead of one whose parts are disfunctional
The biggest "trick" to reaching climax during intercourse IS clitoral stimulation. If you are positioned in such a way as to allow grinding of your clitoris against his body, you will have much more luck. I'm sure that the people you have talked to all have their clitoris' stimulated during intercourse though not necessarily manually. If you have your body pressed up against your lover so your clitoris is being stimulated, you may not even realize you are getting that stimulation.
You are also probably putting too much pressure on yourself to climax and so is he. You both need to relax and take a LOT of time doing other things. Foreplay, Foreplay, FOREPLAY! You may not have experienced having an orgasm through intercourse so far, but that doesn't mean you never will or won't with him. You may also want to try masturbating before intercourse or have him perform oral on you so that you already have had an orgasm before sex. After an orgasm, a womans body is much more likely to have more.
Okay SOME women require clitoral stimulation during intercourse to achieve orgasm. SOME women also enjoy G-Spot OVER clitoral stimulation etc etc etc. However there are SOME women who enjoy clitoral, G-Spot, and Posterior Fornix stimulation and CAN achieve orgasms from ALL three.
And some just will not permit themselves to have an orgasm not matter what her partner does or does not do to help. It may NOT be "his fault". RELAX and let the arousal flow.
Get to know yourself then communicate what assistance you need to your partner.
If he doesn't care - get yourself a new partner.
Do oral before trying anything else. In my recent experimentation with my girlfriend, I've found that if she gives me oral before trying to use any form of penetration, it's alot easier to get an orgasm after that.