hi im new to the site and none of the threesome threads i read could help with my problem so i decided to post
so here i am, im with my gf for over 2 years now and love her dearly. we have had some trust issues in the past but we are past that now. just recently she has told me of the threesome fantasy she has with another imaginary guy. iv had the same fantasy but i cant bear the thought of sharing her with anyone else. i am a self confessed jelous boyfriend not to the point of paranoia but not far off.
she herself is up for anything and really open minded but i really hate the thought of anyone else touching her like that, is this weird?? i know loads of guys would kill for this position as well as the fact i have had the same fantasy.
the main question im asking is ; would this exprience liberate me or would it be the bullet in the head of my relationship and open the doors of my already jelous nature ?
thanks alot for any help
If either of you are unsure about it, then just don't it.
Seems like a safe plan.
If you have read the many threads here on threesomes, it takes little imagination to answer your own question for you.
Well, since I've got a minute to spare I don't mind typing in the redundant answer. :)
Threesomes or open relationships are definitely a bad idea if you're insecure or jealous. Easy as that. By your own admission you can't stand the idea of another guy touching her . . . . why do you think that's going to change if it becomes a reality?
Sounds like the mix for a really unpleasant situation.
Bad idea, trust me!
Sounds as if you are in a bad way, she wants it! You will have to think seriously about it. I think you guys should discuss it, especially if you want to move on in the relationship.
Since you both have jealousy issues; leave it a fantasy.
No go area leave it as a fantasy
No 3somes for you, guy!!!
More to the point - get rid of your jealousy.
My wife uses a vibrating dildo while she gives me a blowjob and we fantasize that we are having a threesome. I will say things like the other guy might. Like how good it is-how tight-etc. Much safer than the real thing. We also fantasize while watching group sex DVD'S together.