I've read some of these forums and none of them completley apply to me. So I need a lil' help. I have had sex now 2 times, the 1st time wasn't really sex I guess. He couldn't get it in me and it hurt so much we stopped the penetration. Since that time I haven't had intercourse with another guy in a year or so, but I have masterbated & been fingered. During masterbation I will use penetration & can now fit it, but when I do deeper penetration to reach my G-spot (while it no longer hurts) I have a small amount of blood on myself & on the dildo (but not everytime). Just recently I had sex again with this guy, & we succeeded, but he asked me later if I was ok, because he had a lil' bit of blood on him. I don't really understand why this is happening, since technically my hymen is torn from tampons and sex and masterbating. Does anyone have any ideas, advice or can relate? I'm thinking of going to the gyno soon to ask about 'cause it's worrying me.
Thanks!
See your gyno.
FYI sex, mastubation and tampons doesn't automatically mean your hymen is completely broken. Sometimes it can require a little more.
Tampons are not supposed to even penetrate you. It even says it on the packaging that it will not pop your hymen.
So if the guy penetrated you a little bit he probably just popped half of it. I had this problem for a while. The gyno can;t do much for you really besides tell you this. The second guy just popped the rest.
If you are bleeding during /from intercourse...see a doctor; hymen or not.