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Hi Stallion, I see that you are another causuality of the anal sex delima in heterosexual relationships today and that you've bought into the notion that you must please. First, his rights to any sexual favor or act ends where your body begins. Nowhere is it written or ordered that women must accomadate their partners anally ( especially when their male partner has objections to having his own anus violated/exploited!!!) Your husband, like most men have learned that persistence in the form of continued pressure and coercion pays off because so many wonmen back down, not because they want to but because they feel that they have to. What's he gonna do, walk? leave you for rump roast? Would that actually be so bad? If rump roast is more important that you and your feelings, you would be far better off without him torturing you all of the time.
I think down deep, most men know that anal sex isn't all that great for the receiver ( hence, he doesn't want his own anus violated/exploited ) and I also think, deep down, that they respect you even less when you don't stand up for yourself and let them walk all over you. Try to find and flex your authority over your own body and learn how to teach him how you expect to be treated all the while letting him know that you have standards which at the moment he's falling short of meeting! Right now, he's got your gaurd up, making you feel as if you must perform and please. Turn that around on him and watch the lion turn into a mouse!
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