[EvilEvilKitten]

Several points come to mind:

1. She could have called you back.

2. It is not her place to tell you what you can do on your own time

3. Get a better phone

4. Stop involving others in your love life especially kids.

Frankly, Claire isn't so timid since she went to bed with you on the first date so stop buying into her "poor little me" game. We all know why she does it but if you 'buy into it' she will not respect you. Stop going to bed with girls on the first date anyway. Wait for the second date which you have already provisionally planned before the first date ends. If the first date went well, immediately (before saying goodbye when on the first date) ask her out to a specific place, date, and time as the second date. Secure a future meeting with the girl before you leave.