STALLION51
STOP THIS NONSENSE IMMEDIATELY
It is quite obvious that the uncaring, unfeeling, immature, bullying lout you call your husband has no respect or love for you as a person in your own right. Why are you still married to him? Do you enjoy being abused, disrespected, and put through hell like this?
"I want to please him"
No, that is not what you're doing. You are trying to appease him thinking that if you cater to him, cower before him, and generally act 'nice-nice' he won't hurt you. Time you learned one thing.
Cowering does not work. Cowering and permitting him to continue will only result in his increasing disrespect for you.
The next time he says anything about anal play or anal sex reply with "I want my lawyer." and mean it. Why stay with a bully? With all the good men out in the world there is simply no reason for you to stick with this inconsiderate bastard.
Please read
A YEAR ON THE PROGRAM and see what you need to do to keep from 'boring' him. Face it, honey, no man who is with a woman who embraces her sexuality and rejoices in it to full measure could ever be 'bored'.
Also take a look at
www.wickedwomangroup.us to get a look at another way.