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Originally Posted by stallion51

Why are you even considering letting him do it again after your "tore" last time? re you that insure with your marriage that you will let him do this to you at the risk of your health, happiness and sanity?.......... I think that I am willing to do it to make him happy. I don't want to be boring to him, I have to compete with what we see for our job. I feel like he is missing out by being with me but yet has to see all the exciting stuff on the computer everyday. I am very insecure in myself, I don't feel good enough to be with him.

You feel you have to compete with porn? Why?
Has he told you he is bored?

Originally Posted by stallion51

My husband has said that he wants to drop it, I wish it were that simple. How can it be dropped when it is in our face everyday, it is bound to come up again and again.

Well if he has respect for You and your marriage then it should not come up again...

Originally Posted by stallion51

He knew that I was cutting myself and he pushed me to go get on meds, which I did for awhile.
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So you have other mental issues or was all this because of "Anal Sex" ?

Originally Posted by stallion51

. He doesn't want me to perform anal acts on him, although I don't want to anyways.

and Why not? maybe you need to pressure him and see how it feels for him..


I really think you need some professional help. a New Job or a new husband