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Yeah I'd be super upset if I were him. First I def wouldn't want an open relationship.. I like my relationships to be an immensely strong emotional and physical bond between my partner and I and no one else. If I am not good enough for her by myself then I don't want her.. and if she doesn't satisfy me completely I don't want her. I'm not gonna go ask her for a threesome or permission to have sex with other girls and I'm not gonna go do it without permission either. I would just tell her this isn't working and move on. For me a lot of the excitement of sex is that I'm the only one she is being intimate with and she's the only one I'm being intimate with. There's always gonna being extra sexual desires and curiosity but I feel like the emotional part is more important.. and I'm not making any huge sacrifices by not chasing down my extra sexual desires. The love of my girlfriend is 1000 times better to me than the idea of having anal sex with some other girl or cumming in some other girls mouth (the things she doesnt do but i want to, although she said she does wanna try to swallow). I think communication is really important.. my girlfriend and I both agree on being exclusive and monogamous and we also communicate our emotional feelings as well as sexual desires on a regular basis... and she definitely satisfies me emotionally and sexually as well as other ways and satisfies is an understatement.. and unless shes lying I do the same for her. But some people are different and like open relationships.. but I think that what youre doing is completely unfair. You cannot go and say you wanna have relations with other girls and say he can't join or do the same. You say you have trust issues with it.. how the hell do you think he feels? Just because it isnt men youre after doesnt mean its not gonna make HIM FEEL INADEQUATE... you are selfish beyond belief to say youd be jealous in that situation... you say youd feel inadequate? thats a joke.. youve probably already made him feel that way. You should either decide one of three things.. be monogamous with him, let him at the very least join your fun.. if not have his own too, or don't marry him and find a man that puts up with your BS
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