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Originally Posted by SpicyGirl69
Regular KY lube is good for anal because it is so thick. At least that's my opinion. Honestly though, I think I'd prefer the lubes with benzocaine in it if I ever tried them because anal sex is often too painful for me. But if you use a lube with benzocaine in it, make sure the male partner uses a condom and that you put the benzocaine lube on the outside of the condom or else it'll desensitize him as well.
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Not sure if you'll see this, but STOP DESENSITIZING BEFORE ANAL!! When it hurts, it means you're DOING IT WRONG. You NEED to hurt so that you can tell when you're damaging your body.
Desensitizing your bum before anal is like putting makeup on skin cancer. You need to know it's there and deal with it.