[EvilEvilKitten]

I know precisely what is going, or rather, not going on. You two are dancing around eachother and not effectively communicating because each of you is unsure of the other.

So, to stop the dancing around and around, and to make him come clean about what he wants, you stop dancing first and be prepared to walk away.

You're not being stupid, you're simply not listening.

"How do I bring up the subject of a solid relationship, when we aren't even approaching that, and we haven't even had sex? Am I overreacting in wanting to move so fast?"

and "He's so hard to read.."

Oh, and withholding - well, let us know when he finally lets other people know you're his gf. Until then, yeah, he's withholding.

One of you has simply got to stop being so 'guarded' and shy and just come on out. That means it is either you or him. Who do you want to have to go first?