[Massdebator]

I think you are moving WAAY too fast. You are 20 years old, and you are most probably at a very volatile stage of you life when everything is still up in the air. You hardly know her at all, and have said nothing about her child other than that she has one. Do you know the child? Do you like children? You better, because the girl and the child are a package deal, and what's more, her child is more important to her than you are. Given the time of your life you are in, how little you know of her, and the distance between you, you really ought to take things more slowly. Maintain regular contact, and continue to go on dates, but feel free to date others as well. Save exclusivity for when you feel confident that you could spend your life with her, and more importantly, when you feel that you are equipped to be (and want to be) that child's father figure.

It is fairly irrational to give up your life, uproot yourself, and start anew for someone you have known for a mere 10 days! I get a feeling that she moved this quickly with her ex-husband, and it netted her a divorce and single parenthood. She didn't learn anything from that, I guess.