[Brandye]

You start by doing a search. Your questions have been answered. In short, the first time is a shock, at least a surprise, for every woman. You may want to use a (non-lubricated condom) for practice so you can learn the mechanics before getting that first mouthful. Many women get him to the edge and then let it squirt - onto his belly; onto your chest; into a tissue or towel.

Just before he comes, the head becomes completely engorged and turns purple. Some Cowper's glans juices (pre-cum) are released. If you keep a tumb lightly resting at the bottom base of the penis, you can feel it. You have to move quickly because when you feel it (discover this doing a handjob), it will be squirting very quickly.