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Kotoba,, Unless your girlfriend has had practice pleasuring herself in the past, i don't think that fireworks will be sparking on her first time.!
That goes for you also, reaching total pleasure can be a bit tricky unless you have had practiced already (i.e. if you are a pro)..
before you start, I would make sure you have read all the techniques for what to do.
Actually, this website is great for tips and hints! Take a read!
For your girlfriend to have an awesome experience and total pleasure, you need to make her 100% relaxed. As you know your girlfriend the best, only you will know how to do this.!
If a girl is feeling a little tense, automatically her abdomen muscles will tense and that will not allow you to have total access to all those areas you need to please!!
This also goes for the myth that "girls bleed during the first time of sex"..
A very small percentage of girls squirt (or bleed) on their first time of oral or normal sex!
It isnt a bad thing if she doesnt 'squirt', she hasnt hit any less of an orgasm than is she had! Dont worry!!
But she may get incredibly 'wet' down there, depending on how horny you make her!
In that case, if you are paranoid with making any type of mess on your bed (or wherever you are going to do this), put down some type of towel! But make sure you explain to her why you are using a towel, its a major turnoff for a girl if she thinks you are embarrassed or discussed by her fluids!
I hope that helped you!! Good luck!!
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